How to Play
Guidelines for deeper connection
Play It Your Way
- Solo — Journal through the questions at your own pace for self-reflection and clarity
- On a Date — Skip the small talk and actually get to know each other
- With Friends — Deepen existing friendships or turn acquaintances into real connections
- With a Lover — Explore intimacy beyond just the physical
The Only Rules
- Honesty over performance — Don't give the impressive answer. Give the real one.
- You can always pass — Say 'no comment' and move on. But notice why you wanted to.
- Listen without fixing — Don't advise, judge or interrupt. Just witness.
- What's shared stays between you — Create safety so everyone can be brave.
Using the Timer
- Each deck has a built-in timer matched to the sharing time
- Tap the timer button when someone starts speaking
- A gentle bell will sound when time's up — then swap
- The timer is there to help, not pressure — take the time you need
6 decks · 151 questions · For Gay Men